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Open Letter from a Millennial - we're not special


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Hacker
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PostPosted: Jul 23 2012 07:00 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Teralyx wrote:
What about that mission?

Oh you little troll you

I'm talking after
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Drew Linky
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PostPosted: Jul 23 2012 11:51 pm Reply with quote Back to top

I can't really contribute much that Hack hasn't already said, other than this letter has made apparent a lot of things that I was afraid of but did not recognize yet. I try not to worry about my future because that's what my Dad did. He got a masters in Physics, a bachelors in Mathematics. He was working on a bunch of teams in aeronautics and astrophysics. He was a part of the team that worked on this mother fucker: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_Orion_%28nuclear_propulsion%29

And despite all of that, he struggles to support his family with a job as a mechanic for the same fast food chain that I now have a part time job at. In fact, he was laid off by corporate not too long ago and has to work for owner operators in order to get any money (which is funny, because now corporate stores all around the Midwest are breaking down and losing money big time. I know it sounds bad trying to claim that it was all because of my Dad that these stores were able to function for so long, but.. it's true. The people who are hired there often do not know how to speak English, let alone read it, and so inadvertently cause problems and break machinery by accident. If it hadn't been for my Dad, I'm confident that most of the McDonald's around the Midwest would have begun to lose a fuck ton of money years ago).

As it is, he had to pay off student loans over ten to twenty years... after he received his degrees, he was 80k in the hole. I'm lucky enough to have scholarships that I won't approach one fourth of what he did, assuming I only go for a bachelors degree. And even then, I don't have the assurance that I will find a job to pay off what debt I have accrued by the time I graduate with a degree.

Hack, you mentioned something about taking up a trade? In the back of my mind, I've been taking up so many things like knitting and sewing because it'll be useful if I need something to fall back on as a last ditch effort. I also plan on learning how to properly work metal in a forge, as fantasy-like as that may seem. But it may come in handy for more than just a fallback from a regular job... being self sufficient is handy.


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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 12:30 am Reply with quote Back to top

I get tired of the bitching about the bad economy and lack of jobs, and the whining about bs that parents and older generations tell younger generations, etc, etc. All generations give tons of bs to their children, you just have to not believe it all and follow it like some stupid lemming. This is not some new phenomenon, its just that we live at a time where more people are aware and are able to communicate about it on a much larger and more visible scale. The millennials and whatever generations come after will get their chance to fuck shit up as well. Such things are inevitable.

Most people go to college for stupid useless things that will never get them a good paying job, because either too many people are doing the same thing or because they want to do something they like instead of something useful. It's lazy thinking and planning, with not much thought of the future and an expectation of instant results.

And yes, people are getting becoming more and more lazy, but that is a result of advances in technology and the comforts it brings to us.

By doing simple things like researching the job market, and looking at the history of what skills, fields and trades are almost always in demand, you can increase your chances of finding a decent, good paying job by 100 percent.

It has also been said earlier that knowing when to seize an opportunity is important. I agree with that completely and would go so far as to say that they should teach children how to spot and seize worthwhile opportunities, as that would be a great skill in terms of being a successful member of the workforce.

So basically, quit the fucking negative whining and bitching, be smart, be shrewd, think positive and apply yourself 100 percent to what you are doing and you will be successful.


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Fighter_McWarrior
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 08:30 am Reply with quote Back to top

Hey, @om, how long has it been since you were in the job market with limited experience? You can correct me if I'm mistaken in this, but you seem like someone who hasn't had to deal with it for a while.

Even the business majors I know are having a hard time getting jobs because the few good, secure ones that are available aren't be readily given to less experienced grads. In case you hadn't noticed, we're in a recession. And the demographic that always struggles the most in recessions are young people looking to enter the job market with less experience than their adult counterparts.

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Most people go to college for stupid useless things that will never get them a good paying job, because either too many people are doing the same thing or because they want to do something they like instead of something useful. It's lazy thinking and planning, with not much thought of the future and an expectation of instant results.


Oh really? Can I see some statistics on that? Because I would be willing to bet that most people go to school for either business or education, which are supposed to be two of the most marketable degrees. Hell, at the university I got my degree from, the College of Business had it's own building and got a separate graduation ceremony because they put out more kids each year than everyone else combined.

That's not to say that there aren't a bunch of people who major in useless fields. But blaming the current jobless rates among >25s on philosophy majors is a cop-out.

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By doing simple things like researching the job market, and looking at the history of what skills, fields and trades are almost always in demand, you can increase your chances of finding a decent, good paying job by 100 percent.


Like volunteering on campaigns from the time you're a teenager? Because that's how I got my opportunity.

You're right that working hard on opportunities when you can is extremely important, but that didn't save me from spending a year working at Wal-Mart. That had less to do with my "useless degree" or any lack of want on my part to roll up my sleeves and work, and more to do with the nearly 20% unemployment rate in central Illinois at the time I graduated.

So, I guess what I'm saying is that we have every right to bitch about the economy. It sucks. A positive attitude certainly helps, and you should definitely have one, but it doesn't change the fact that the world economy is in the shitter right now, and you'd be an idiot to think that it doesn't make job hunting harder.


"Spanish bombs, yot' quierro y finito
Yo te querda oh ma corazón
Oh ma corazón, oh ma corazón" - The Clash, Spanish Bombs
 
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 09:21 am Reply with quote Back to top

Here are some random thoughts on the article:

-The article should have been addressed to "Dear Mom and Dad" not "Dear Baby-Boomers and Generation X". It sounds like the author had really shitty parents.

-Most of the Millennial rant is really just due to bad timing. They're entering the "real world" in the worst economy in decades and they're feeling like failures because they're not successful. The economy is hurting every generation. The Millennials are just feeling it more because they're getting hammered right out of the starting gate. But they're probably in the best position long-term. The older generations had their retirement plans and home equity wiped out and they won't have time to recover. At least the younger people should have time on their side.

-Leaving Millennials out of any blame for the economy is ridiculous. That nice link that GP provided has the Millennial generation born 1982-1999 (roughly). So, in my experience, the Millennials were a pretty big cause of the housing collapse. I knew a lot of Millenials working part time jobs and buying $150,000 houses with no money down and an adjustable rate mortgage. Don't get me wrong, every generation was part of the problem but, in my experience, the Millennials were the ones most likely to get forclosed on because they didn't have the savings or income to save their house when shit went bad. So blaming the bad economy completely on Baby Boomers and Gen X is BS. I guess the younger half of the Millennials can blame everybody.

-If you graduate (or don't) with a lot of student loan debt, it is entirely your fault. Getting your AA at a community college can save tens of thousands of dollars. The problem is most people are stupid at 18 and they're not thinking about future debt. They're choosing some big name state university because they have sweet parties and a popular football team. There are plenty of schools where you can get a 4 year degree for under 25k. If you finish college with crippling debt then you made a bad decision. (I really think there needs to be some finance classes in high school that cover student loans and credit cards and stuff)

-Choosing your degree is very similar to choosing your school. If you make a bad choice it can really cast you. I guess you can partially blame the older generations/parents/Disney for the whole "live your dream" myth. But there's gotta be some common sense too. What are you gonna do with a bachelors degree in music? Do some research. Check out the Bureau of Labor and Statistics job outlooks. Careers in the medical field or computer field are pretty safe and you can usually find 2 year programs if that's more your thing.

-The Millennials complain that they can't find jobs because the Baby Boomers won't retire. The Baby Boomers complain that they're getting replaced by Milennials who will work for half the salary. They can't both be right.

-This is long enough. DON'T FUCK WITH THE MOST RADICAL GENERATION... GENERATION X!
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 09:43 am Reply with quote Back to top

For those of you aged 18-30, do you have a bank account that is independent of your parents? It can be in addition to a join account, but do you have at least one checking or savings account that is your own?



 
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Fighter_McWarrior
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 09:58 am Reply with quote Back to top

Yes. What does that have to do with the discussion at hand?


"Spanish bombs, yot' quierro y finito
Yo te querda oh ma corazón
Oh ma corazón, oh ma corazón" - The Clash, Spanish Bombs
 
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 11:20 am Reply with quote Back to top

I've had my own bank account through that entire age span.


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A Hispanic dude living in Arizona knows a lot of Latinas? That's fucking odd.

 
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@om*d
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 11:22 am Reply with quote Back to top

Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
Hey, @om, how long has it been since you were in the job market with limited experience? You can correct me if I'm mistaken in this, but you seem like someone who hasn't had to deal with it for a while.

For the past 3 years I have been going from job to job, because my experience does not apply to what is available where I am. I also worked at a Walmart for about a year. I have also done food service, construction, landscaping, packaging, driving a taxi and many other jobs where there really was no way to move up in position, mostly because other people did not want their jobs to be at risk so they hold the new people back.

Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
Even the business majors I know are having a hard time getting jobs because the few good, secure ones that are available aren't be readily given to less experienced grads. In case you hadn't noticed, we're in a recession. And the demographic that always struggles the most in recessions are young people looking to enter the job market with less experience than their adult counterparts.

Don't forget that many older people with tons of experience also lose out because they are both too old and too experienced.

If you really, badly, want a good job, you will do almost anything necessary to get into one. I actually lied to get my current job, as I had zero experience in the field I am currently in. I did some research online, enough so I could bullshit my way in and then I busted my ass learning the ropes, watching the other employees and doing more research and study at home that will supplement the skills I am developing at work right now.

I might add that both of my grandfathers had to do the same thing, as did my father and at least two of my uncles, that I know of. My point is, if you really want a job, you will make it happen.


Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
Because I would be willing to bet that most people go to school for either business or education, which are supposed to be two of the most marketable degrees.

Business and education, yeah... I will have to say that as degrees, they are not the greatest.

I know a lot of people who have have degrees in business, and most of those people are managers(or even lower in the chain) at shitty retail stores. It seems like an awful waste( at least to me) to spend a few years getting a degree and then having to work in retail. But some people have to do it. Also, a lot of retail places move people up from within, so you have to get in at the bottom, even with that degree. This goes back to working hard. If you have the degree and you are already in the door, your chances are already better. Be social, make friends within and try as much as you can to move up.

As far as education, well, that field is a huge fucking mess right now. I have a lot of friends and acquaintances who are working part time as substitute teachers and tutors. It has been pretty tough to get a job in that field for many years now, as the entire structure of education is going through huge changes as far as they way people are employed.

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Hell, at the university I got my degree from, the College of Business had it's own building and got a separate graduation ceremony because they put out more kids each year than everyone else combined.

That is a huge problem. I would have to say if you see so many people in school for the same thing, you'd have to be a dumbass not to change your major to something else. Obviously it will be harder to get a job if everyone else is trying to do the same fucking things. And that does make those degrees a little less useful, if there are more people around with them.

Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
Like volunteering on campaigns from the time you're a teenager? Because that's how I got my opportunity.

Yes, volunteering is a great idea, especially if it can turn into a paying job. As great as it is to volunteer though, not all avenues there lead to jobs, so you have to be smart about what you pick.

Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
You're right that working hard on opportunities when you can is extremely important, but that didn't save me from spending a year working at Wal-Mart. That had less to do with my "useless degree" or any lack of want on my part to roll up my sleeves and work, and more to do with the nearly 20% unemployment rate in central Illinois at the time I graduated.

So, I guess what I'm saying is that we have every right to bitch about the economy. It sucks. A positive attitude certainly helps, and you should definitely have one, but it doesn't change the fact that the world economy is in the shitter right now, and you'd be an idiot to think that it doesn't make job hunting harder.

You can always move to find work. Don't have the money? Hitchhike, be homeless for a while, do what you have to. Take odd jobs, save, save, save.

Bitch all you want about the economy, I won't stop you. I just tire of hearing about it from time to time. But keep in mind that the US still has one of, if not the best economy in the world and you could be living in a shithole somewhere else starving to death and having to deal with some sort of conflict. Be grateful for what you have, for the opportunities that are available, even if you don't always get those opportunities yourself. People still want to come to the US from all over the world because of those opportunities.
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 12:01 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
Yes. What does that have to do with the discussion at hand?

For some reason, most people I know that are older than me or are younger by a year or two have their own bank accounts and have since they were 18. Most people I know that are more than 2 years younger than me are still using joint accounts with their parents.

I wonder if personal fiscal responsibility is something that has altered during generational gaps. More protective parents stop their children from becoming more responsible and making harder choices.

I have no proof of this, it was more of a thought and I was just curious.



 
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 12:09 pm Reply with quote Back to top

On my last car purchase, my Dad cosigned the loan with me. It brought my payment down about $30 a month. I still pay it, and I'm the primary name on it, but it's still my expense alone. That's about the most interacting I've had with my parents in finance since I started college.


"Spanish bombs, yot' quierro y finito
Yo te querda oh ma corazón
Oh ma corazón, oh ma corazón" - The Clash, Spanish Bombs
 
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 02:23 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Funnily enough, I've had my own separate bank account since I turned seventeen. I try my very best to save up any money that I can, and even have my own "private bank" for change at home (I try to make it even better by putting at least one dollar into my change jar at home every night, provided that I have the ability to).


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Greg the White
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 03:08 pm Reply with quote Back to top

GPFontaine wrote:
Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
Yes. What does that have to do with the discussion at hand?

For some reason, most people I know that are older than me or are younger by a year or two have their own bank accounts and have since they were 18. Most people I know that are more than 2 years younger than me are still using joint accounts with their parents.

I wonder if personal fiscal responsibility is something that has altered during generational gaps. More protective parents stop their children from becoming more responsible and making harder choices.

I have no proof of this, it was more of a thought and I was just curious.

I keep my savings linked to my folks because it keeps money transfers easy. My mom once had to visit a sick friend, but had just payed off bills and needed a paycheck for the plane ticket. All I had to do was transfer her some money, and she was able to pay me back once she filled it back in.

I could complain about baby-boomers all day, but we do need to take responsibility, and one thing we need to do as far as this generation goes is to drop the college training bullshit dog and pony show in high school. Football and Chess Club do not determine future career success as much as balancing a regular part-time job and studies. There are people making future career and job decisions without ever having had an actual job, merely going off of pamphlets and daydreams. I saw the crash coming and quit college before my debts got unpayable, instead drawing on my experience and enjoyment from working 40 hours a week part-time as a cook. I've since had two well-paying jobs, my current one being a 23 year-old sous chef with no culinary education.

Meanwhile, I have to train kids from the CIA (one of the most illustrious culinary schools in the world) who have never actually had a job, thinking it was going to be like Top Chef, where they freak out over having to make dinner for three in under 3 hours. The first time they get a rush where they have to make upwards of 100 dishes per hour, or even burn themselves on a grill, you see them sulk off, ready to quit the career immediately. I had 25 year-old college degree applicants who only had high school extra-curriculars listed as job experience.

That's not to say you don't need certification for many careers, but you should be getting an idea of what your desired job should actually be. I tried reading The Trenches (the side-project webcomic from the Penny Arcade/PvP guys), but couldn't get over IT majors (my least favorite people just ahead of pig rapists) in the comments section whining about long intern shifts or having to actually do their jobs.

My problem is that we don't value labor like we used to. Everybody wants some pointless office chair job that they can whine about when they come home at the same hour every day, then tell construction workers that they don't work hard enough to deserve unions or a living wage. We used to value people who actually worked and created things, but decided that was more suited for Chinese slave labor, instead focusing on paying top dollar to fund a new iPhone fart app.

tl;dr, this comic kind of sums up a lot of my feelings:
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So here's to you Mrs. Robinson. People love you more- oh, nevermind.
 
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PostPosted: Jul 24 2012 03:27 pm Reply with quote Back to top

^You get the same thing in politics. I have people who are 21 come into the office and I feel like they're kids even though I'm barely older than them. But that's because they all think that every campaign office they walk into is going to be The West Wing that they're personally Josh Lyman. I don't know how many times I've heard this:

"Isn't there something a little more meaningful for me to do? I was kind of thinking that I could help write policy briefs or something."

We already know policy, dipshits. We wouldn't have survived the primary if we didn't. What we need is doors knocked and phones called. If you're lucky, we may have a parade coming up for you to march in. You're not the White House Chief of Staff, so roll up your sleeves and get the fuck to work.

The nice thing about politics is that the Hard Volunteer Work -> Hard Pay Work --> Less Hard Management Work --> Cushy Staffer Work. You can trace the progress of everyone, and anyone who's been involved for a while knows what the kids don't: Only blood, sweat and tears will get you anywhere. I'm in that third step because I've done my time, but it's amazing how many people don't realize that they have to also.


"Spanish bombs, yot' quierro y finito
Yo te querda oh ma corazón
Oh ma corazón, oh ma corazón" - The Clash, Spanish Bombs
 
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Fighter_McWarrior wrote:
it's amazing how many people don't realize that they have to also.

Ok, I like this point a lot. Too many people I know would talk to me about their futures without a single care as to how they would achieve it. Things like "I want to go to college and be a veterinarian, so that I can do something I love and get a decent wage do that I can pay for a house I can be proud of."

I would stare at them. There were a lot of people who said this and had very nearly failed the courses related to them in early high school, be it math, science, English, whatever. And their general work ethic was non-existent (which, I don't want to tout mine, I'm horrible at keeping with something if I have to establish my own routine).

On top of that, they had no way to pay for college except through heavy student loans. And they all wanted to go to top dollar universities for a better quality education. I think one kid was spouting bullshit about Ivy League schools or something, it pissed me off because he was fucking stupid. Like, he made rocks look smart.

Finally, in addition to nearly failing the related courses (if not failing them outright), they didn't put any research at all into what it actually took to get a job or the necessary education for them. I wouldn't have either, but they fucking made us do it, on several occasions! I can count at least once in each year when they told us to get on the Occupational Outlook Handbook and look up like five different professions we wanted to do, and to write down the pay, requirements, working conditions, etc..

I don't even remember where I was going with this, I'm too pissed off thinking of my former classmates.


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College is a business, now. It's a pact between banks and universities to push a bunch of kids through, and collect as much of their money as possible. our parents didn't get to go to college in the numbers we did. It was something far away and exotic, a reward for military service, and a chance at a privileged life. They wanted the best for us, and with the best of intentions, they urged us on. Colleges found out they could make more money if more students got loans, and banks soon wanted in to the point where we canned the once-useful federal loan programs in favor of loans from banks with outlandish interest rates.

We got fed bullshit like

"college grads earn $1 million more in a lifetime than high school grads."

"Just get a degree, anything will get you an awesome job right out of college."

"You don't want to be flipping burgers, do you?"

Sure, if you got certain degrees like ITS or Engineering, you were in. Unfortunately, there must have been at least a million kids that fell for that. And how would they know? Instead of getting part-time jobs in high school, they did pointless extra-curricular activities that in no way prepared them for the real world. We have kids in their mid-'20s who've never gotten a paycheck, worked a double shift, never created something or provided a service of worth to another person.

I received more satisfaction washing thousands of dishes or serving hundreds of meals to satisfied customers in one night than I did in turning in a ten page report that would get thrown away the next day. It gave me an urge to get into a career in food service, and I studied culinary things on my own time, practicing at home, and pushing my recipes out the door. Someone who writes a well-received blog can work on becoming a writer, and someone who enjoys building or making objects can be a craftsman or an engineer.

I don't think it's if you "like" a career, much like what Drew said, but if you find worth and pride in it. We spent so long demonizing anything that made less than $50,000 per year in this country that we turned away so many people from new experiences or work they could actually be interested in. So we told them to spend a hundred-thousand each to get a degree, any degree, because of some vague idea that every kid who went through our bullshit college system would be rich and happy without even having had at least one real adult experience before they were 23.


So here's to you Mrs. Robinson. People love you more- oh, nevermind.
 
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PostPosted: Jul 25 2012 08:48 am Reply with quote Back to top

A food service job should be mandatory for everybody at some point in their young lives.


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Tomdincan wrote:
A food service job should be mandatory for everybody at some point in their young lives.

Who cares if it is food service or anything else? Quite honestly, there are many young people I don't want coming anywhere near my food.

I do think that getting a job while young is important, but I don't see the benefit of it being in the food service industry.



 
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I had my first jobs at 10 years old. I did weeding and other garden work and I also washed and detailed boats.


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I would liken those more to chores or favors for a neighbor. I know nitpicking will sound really weird in this situation, but for some reason the two are distinctly different in my mind.

Of course, I was never payed to do chores or favors, so that may be why (exception mowing the lawn, which I did infrequently after I turned 12). I think actual jobs (e.g. food service, where you are on a payroll and you work with others, and may have to deal with unsatisfied customers) because it teaches teamwork and humility. I see a lot of people where I work that, like me, this is their first job, but instead of being silent and learning quickly how to do their shit, they're pompous assholes that never learn how to do their job properly and end up fucking things up for us because they "don't like cleaning".


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PostPosted: Jul 25 2012 11:42 am Reply with quote Back to top

I've worked so many jobs that I can barely keep track anymore. I mowed yards and did weedeating from age 12 till 14 when I started bagging groceries. I wasn't even old enough to legally work there, but I needed the money and ended up giving a good 80% of what I made over 3 years to my parents. I worked washing dishes for a few years, and cooked in a kitchen for 5 or 6 years, as well as roofing. These were all menial but rewarding jobs and I don't regret them even a little bit.

By far the best job I ever had was landscaping, where we spent 10-12 hours a day in the blazing hot sun doing the hardest work I've ever done in my life, from cutting down trees to hauling lumber by hand to digging ditches. I'd say it was the best because it was the most freeing job I've ever had and had me in the best shape of my life. The absolute worst job I ever had was doing graphic design work for a mailbox company, which I still do part time, albeit I can do most of it from home now.

There is nothing more depressing than doing jobs that seem to affect the physical world around you in an intense way, and then going to just sitting at a desk for 8 hours.


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JoshWoodzy wrote:
There is nothing more depressing than doing jobs that seem to affect the physical world around you in an intense way, and then going to just sitting at a desk for 8 hours.

I just heard my fathers voice ringing in my ears.

And after hearing something like that, it makes me wonder if a job as a research scientist (which is what I'm really going for) is going to be what I want to do or if I will kill myself from the boredom.


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PostPosted: Jul 25 2012 12:33 pm Reply with quote Back to top

I'm quite fond of my desk job, and will be even more so after November when I'm not as chained to it. I like my job enough to keep it from driving me crazy, and the fact that I have tons of space to move up helps. I may not be in love with it, but love is what the rest of my life is for.


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Oh ma corazón, oh ma corazón" - The Clash, Spanish Bombs
 
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Klimbatize
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PostPosted: Jul 25 2012 12:50 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Yeah, I get what woodzy is saying about a landscaping job because of the freedom and the productivity you can immediately see after you're done. I did landscaping in my teens as well. One of my all-time favorite jobs was when I worked on a marina because I was out on a lake all day; the fact that I made minimum wage didn't bother me because I had a blast.

However, I found out early on that I like to get paid for what I know, not what I can physically do. There has been far more opportunity to grow, both mentally and financially, in that type of work.


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PostPosted: Jul 25 2012 01:10 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Klimbatize wrote:
However, I found out early on that I like to get paid for what I know, not what I can physically do. There has been far more opportunity to grow, both mentally and financially, in that type of work.

This is true. Landscaping may have been my favorite job because of the freedom and physical activity, as hard as it all was, but if you genuinely are great at something that involves working in an office/desk/whatever, you're obviously gonna be happier there. I didn't mean to imply otherwise. It's just different for everyone, obviously. I don't wanna be doing graphic design and sitting at a desk for the rest of my life, therefore I'm not extremely happy with it like I was when I had that sense of freedom.


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